So I'm watching "Bourne Identity," and Jason Bourne has just gone to his apartment. He is an extreme minimalist, to be sure. His kitchen is complete with all the NEEDS of a chef, but no frills. No art, plants, or anything else that might not be considered a "need." It got me thinking. I know he's a book/movie character, and his character, by nature, would only keep what was absolutely needed, but this minimalism thing really resonated with me. I have a really strong desire to be that way, a total minimalist, keeping nothing but the bare essentials. I envy those who can lead that lifestyle. Sadly, my heart wouldn't allow it. I am far too emotionally connected to things, especially the things belonging to those loved ones who are no longer with me in life. From pictures of my family from way before I was born, to my grandpa's brown, felted cowboy hat, I just cannot let certain things go.
I also have this completion complex. Poor Jason. I have difficulty purchasing a piece of a set and not buying the entire set of things. The quickest example of this I can come up with is in scrapbooking. When I joined Stampin' Up (years ago), I had to buy every color of paper and ink they had, along with the matching markers. Even though I still, to this day, haven't used a few of the colors, I knew I would have to have them, just in case. Or it would bother me -- REALLY bother me. It honestly stresses me out if I do not have a complete collection of something I know I will use. In fact, just on Thursday, I was using a navy blue marking pen and my teammate asked where I had gotten it. I told her I had purchased a 24-count multi-color pack of these pens. She said she really liked the navy pen. Later that day, I went back to my classroom and dug in my desk, knowing I had a second navy pen to give her. Why? Because I lost one of the pens from the first set and it drove me crazy, so I went and bought a second set so that I could replace the color.
So I have 3 questions:
A) Does this make me crazy?
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2) Does anyone else have this issue?
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D) How does one become a minimalist? Is it genetic? Is it regional? Does my mid-western upbringing mean I will never be able to not have "stuff" everywhere?
Luckily, I am not in danger of being on any of those hoarding shows.
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A) If it does, you're in really good company.
ReplyDelete2) I have the collecting issue. And the emotional attachment to stuff issue too.
D) Not a clue. LOL!